Why are you normalizing everything??

So I saw an urology PA for my bladder and one thing she said stuck with me…why are you NORMALIZING everything?

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  • In a wheelchair- so I can’t walk, but whatever, I’m going to see the world šŸŒŽ
  • Can’t swallow properly- but whatever, I choke while enjoying my yummy food, especially those cookies šŸŖ
  • Incontinence– I have accidents, but whatever I’m a 41 yo wearing diapers 
  • Speech- I can’t speak clearly but whatever I will do podcast interviews

Hehehe so why do I normalize things? I just want to enjoy life no matter what šŸ˜€

If I didn’t normalize things, I would go crazy! I mean I agree there is a fine line. You can’t completely think everything is normal! You have to realize that something is wrong and while you are trying to fix yourself, you gotta have fun! šŸ„³

This summer has been a blast! I’ve had visits from so many friends! I also went to Ireland with family.

So that is a quick update! I’m still going to physical therapy. And I’m experimenting with different things! If I figure anything out I’ll let you know but in the mean time , here is my podcast interview:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hsct-warriors/id1418589301?i=1000663165337

Hehehe in my head I sounded so eloquent, didn’t even realize that’s how I talk šŸ˜‹

How do you guys understand šŸ˜œ me?!

3 thoughts on “Why are you normalizing everything??

  1. Veena,
    You are articulate and down to earth all wrapped up in a box! I really appreciate the update. Yes we normalize things because otherwise we would go crazy. I am fine as long as I am just going through the motions doing my best but once I think about things, a.k.a. normalize them I break down in tears. I imagine Iā€™m not alone in that sentiment.

    Thank you for being our courageous and professional voice!

    1. Ohh I completely agree! We have to let our emotions out, that’s why we have our support systems! šŸ˜ƒ

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